I Am Perfectly Designed is a children’s picture book by Karamo Brown and his son, Jason “Rachel” Brown, celebrating the unique bond between a father and son and the beauty of being different. The story follows a father and son on a joyful walk through the city, highlighting how their individual differences make them a perfect match, with bright illustrations by Anoosha Syed. It’s an empowering story about self-love, family, and inclusion.
Discussion Questions
- What does it mean to be “perfectly designed”?
- How does this idea help us appreciate who we are?
- How do the father and son show love and support for each other?
- Why is it important to have people in our lives who believe in us?
- What are some things you love about yourself—inside and out?
- How can we help others see and celebrate their own strengths?
- The book talks about being proud of who you are. What makes you proud of your identity, culture, or family?
- How does the relationship between the father and son help the boy feel confident?
- Who helps you feel strong and supported?
- If someone said they didn’t feel “perfectly designed,” what could you say to encourage them?
Activities
- Positive Affirmations Video: Watch this 4-minute video that teaches breathing exercises and reinforces positive affirmations and gratitude.
- Self Portrait: Draw a self portrait and decorate it with words or symbols that represent your personality, interests, and strengths. Around the portrait, write affirmations like these: I am strong. I am loved. I am enough.
- Compliment Circle: Sit in a circle with your family or classmates. Each person gives a compliment to the person next to them, focusing on something unique or meaningful. Reflect on how it feels to give and receive kind words.
- Explore Family History: Look through old photographs together and discuss how everyone has changed and grown, reinforcing the theme of being loved at every stage of life.
- Sticky Note Reminders: Write affirmations or positive messages on sticky notes and place them around the house or classroom (on mirrors, inside school books, etc.) for everyone to see and remember. Ideas include: I am brave and strong. My challenges help me grow. I choose my own attitude. I have the power to change. I can do hard things. I am proud of myself. Mistakes help me learn.